Single Women: Why So Easy?



         What has become of us? It seems as if single women these days are so eager for 'love' that they will be disloyal to the royal within themselves. There is worth, beauty, and value inside of you! Why so easy? Beloved, why do we throw our hearts at every romantic wind when the maker of our hearts tells us to guard our hearts? I once heard a story of a man who went on daily trips with his father and everyday he would get the same exact snack. This one particular day he had a meal before their daily round about the town so when he saw the snack that he always desired he didn't have an appetite for it because he was already full. Princess, are you full? I strongly believe the desire and longing women carry that unrelenting flame inside of us to be loved and experience love is beautiful and Holy. God put that there, for Him. We do not long to be loved so that we can run from guy to guy or fill our voids with empty treasures. That desire to be loved and experience love is a God sized void, only He can FILL you. Men and things may be able to sit in the place of that void but they will not FILL that space. 

        We've got to be rooted in God's love. God is the exact expression, the VERY essence of love. Yet we run to men and things for what our father so freely gives. This is like having real authentic designer clothing available to you whenever you need it but choosing the knock off counterfeit, who would EVER do that!! No more choosing the counterfeit. No more settling. No more throwing our hearts at every and any romantic wind. We will guard our hearts and hide out hearts in Christ. We will quit trying to find love and START embracing the love God so freely gives!! 

My prayer for you comes from Ephesians 3:16-21
I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the Lord’s holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God. Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen.

So what's stopping you? Fear of being alone, feeling unworthy? Not sure if you'll ever find the one? Jesus is THE one for you and you already have His heart forever and ever. Focus on His love, His love is MORE than enough. Taste and see that He is good.